I was told at the beginning of this that the emotions would come in waves. I think today must have been a high tide. I don't think I'm functioning as well today as I was yesterday; I don't know if that's because I didn't have to, with it being a day off, or what.
Even though I went out this morning, I'm feeling kind of isolated now. Strangely, that seems to make it harder to actually reach out to someone. I think it's the dark side of being the healer, in a way; it is so easy to make connections when it seems someone needs me, and so, so difficult to request a connection when it feels like I need...
Need what? I guess that's part of the problem, I don't think I know. I feel like if I did connect, I might still be all mopey, and then I'd get "oh, so sorry for your loss" and all that stuff that people say when there's nothing they can say, and it wouldn't make me feel any better, and all I would be is a burden dragging people down.
I just feel like I'm adrift with no sails today. And even if I had an oar, I wouldn't know which direction to row.
I also finally built myself up to actually using the picture hangers that I bought over the weekend, and I hung up the two larger pictures of Joanne that I have. One is above her chair, and the other is in the bedroom over our bed. I do like that.
I guess I should feel fortunate that I have the time to just spend a day being 'down' now. I can't help but feel like there are a bunch of things I should be doing, but I can't think of any of them I can actually do yet. Soon, that won't be the case, and I will need to be strong. Until then, maybe I should just go easy on myself.